Ezimpelasonto ezimbalwa ezedlule, ngidle isidlo sasemini nabanye abangani.  Besizibambele mathupha ngekota sixoxa nje ukuthi kade siphezu kwaziphi izinto nokuthi impilo yethu ihamba kanjani.  Kwakuyizinto ezijwayelekile;  Umsebenzi, ukufaneleka, amaholide kanye nama-albhamu akamuva abaculi bethu abayintandokazi.  Angikhumbuli ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani, kodwa ingxoxo yashintshela ebudlelwaneni, futhi ngangazi kahle ukuthi izogcina kuphi.  Uyabona, abangani bami ababili abangewona ubuchwepheshe bajola nabantu kwezobuchwepheshe futhi baba nolwazi olubi, ngakho njalo ngemva kwesikhashana, babethanda ukwenza inhlekisa '   '. ngabantu bami  Ayikho into engathi sína ukwethembeka, uhlobo nje lokubhuqa okulindelekile kubangani.  '   ' yabo ithi abantu abaningi bezobuchwepheshe “Bangabantu abangenalwazi, abayizihlakaniphi abacabanga ngokunengqondo kakhulu ngayo yonke into futhi bangahle bangahambisani nohlangothi lwabo lwemizwa” Ithiyori  Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, angazi noma konke lokho kuyiqiniso yini.  Engikwaziyo wukuthi angifuni ukuba semaphethelweni amahlaya abo ngesikhathi esilandelayo, ngakho nginqume ukwenza okuthile ngakho.  Nginqume ukubhala umhlahlandlela wobudlelwano bothando kubantu bezobuchwepheshe ngolimi abaluqondayo.  Cabanga ngalokhu njengemibhalo ye-API noma umhlahlandlela womsebenzisi wobudlelwano bothando.  1. Ungalokothi ucabange, Buza.  Uma uqalise imikhiqizo yesofthiwe ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi abasebenzisi abahlale beziphatha ngendlela oyilindele.  Kuvamile impela, futhi isibonelo esidumile ukuthi   yaqala kanjani njengeBurbn, isithombe sendawo nohlelo lokusebenza lokwabelana ngamanothi kodwa kwavela ukuthi abantu babefuna ukusebenzisa izici zokwabelana ngezithombe kuphela. Yilokho okwaba yi-Instagram.  i-Instagram  Nokho, kwenzeka okufanayo nasebudlelwaneni. Ngeke uhlale ucabanga ukuthi uyazi ukuthi umlingani wakho ufuna futhi udingani.  Ungenza ukucabangela okunolwazi, kodwa uma ungabaza, buza.  Uzomangala ukuthi yini ongayifunda ngomuntu obucabanga ukuthi wazi konke ngaye.  2. 'Lalela' ukuthi abasebenzisi bakho benzani, hhayi abakushoyo.  Lokhu kuzwakala njengekhawunta yephuzu elidlule kodwa akunjalo.  Uma uke wenza   , uyazi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi abasebenzisi bavele basho lokho abacabanga ukuthi bafuna ukukuzwa, ngezinye izikhathi abazi nokuthi bafunani. inhlolokhono yabasebenzisi  Kulezo zimo, udinga ukubheka izenzo zabo ukuze ubone ukuthi empeleni benzani kunokulalela nje abakushoyo.  Kungaba okufanayo nangobudlelwano.  Kwesinye isikhathi udinga ukubona ukuthi umlingani wakho empeleni wenzani ukuze uqonde ukuthi uqonde ukuthini ngempela nokuthi ufunani.  Bangase bangasho izinto ezithile ngoba bengafuni ukukuzwisa ubuhlungu noma bengaqiniseki ukuthi bazozichaza kanjani.  Yingakho kubalulekile ukubheka izenzo zabo esikhundleni salokho.  3. Khulumisanani ngokucacile, njalo.  Ukuxhumana okucacile kubaluleke kakhulu kuzo zonke izici zempilo, kusukela ekuthuthukiseni ubudlelwano kuye ekwakheni isofthiwe.  Thatha izinhlelo zokusebenza zokukhokha/ebhange njengesibonelo.  Yiziphi izinhlelo zokusebenza ozikhethayo?  Lezo ezikuthumela i-imeyili/isaziso uma kunenkinga eyaziwayo ngokucubungula izinkokhelo noma ezingasho lutho bese zilinda uze uzame ukukhokha bese imali yakho ilahlekile?  Kuyafana nangobudlelwano. Zama ngokusemandleni akho ukuxhumana ngezinhlelo zakho, izinhloso kanye nezinselelo (uma zikhona).  Kuyasiza ukwakha ukwethembana futhi kuqinisekisa umlingani wakho ukuthi uyohlale umazisa uma kukhona okungalungile.  4. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ama-delighters.  Izinto ezijabulisayo zomkhiqizo yilezo zinto ezincane emkhiqizweni wesoftware ezikhona ukuze zijabulise abasebenzisi. Azinawo ngempela inani lokusebenza kodwa ziyajabulisa noma zenza amakhasimende ajabule.  Isibonelo esihle ukuthi uma uvula   ngenkathi ungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi, idayinaso emlayezo wephutha iphenduka igeyimu uma uthepha ibha yesikhala. isiphequluli se-Chrome  Ithimba le-Chrome bekungafanele lengeze lokho, kodwa likwenzile futhi kuyabajabulisa abasebenzisi.   Kuyafana nasebudlelwaneni.  Ungalokothi ukhohlwe izinto ezincane.  Inothi elithi 'ngiyabonga' elibhalwe ngesandla, liphinde ligcwalise isiqandisi sabo nokudla okulula abasithandayo. Lezi yizinto ezincane ngempela futhi akumele uzenze, kodwa zihamba ibanga elide uma uzenza.  5. Qhubeka uphindaphinda.  Uma uvula uhlelo lokusebenza kwenzekani ngokulandelayo?  Ingabe uvele uyethule bese ulahla uhlelo lokusebenza?  Cha!!! Ulungisa iziphazamisi futhi ucabange ukuthi yiziphi izici ozozakha ngokulandelayo!  Uma uvumelana nalokhu kungani ungaphatha ubudlelwano ngendlela ehlukile?  Kungani ungayeka ukwenza izinto ezithandwa umlingani wakho ngesikhathi niqala ukuhlangana?  Ingabe uyazilungisa iziphazamisi/izinkinga zakho? Ingabe ucabanga izindlela zokuba umlingani ongcono? Ingabe usazama ukuhlala ufanelekile futhi ugqoke kahle?  Ingabe uzimisele ukuphindaphinda futhi uqhubeke uthuthuka njengomuntu, njengozakwethu?  Lena imibuzo ebalulekile okufanele uzibuze yona.  Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, angizange ngibhale lokhu ngoba ngingumfundisi wezothando noma okunye okunjalo.  Ngibhale lokhu ngoba ngicabanga ukuthi kukhona ukufana phakathi kobuchwepheshe nobudlelwano futhi kungaba uguquko lomdlalo kunoma yimuphi umuntu wezobuchwepheshe ofuna ukuthuthukisa kulesi sici sempilo yakhe.  Ngicabanga ukuthi njengokucwenga umkhiqizo wesoftware, ukukhulisa ubudlelwano kudinga umzamo oqhubekayo, ukunaka imininingwane, kanye nokuzimisela ukuzivumelanisa nezimo.  Ngalokhu engqondweni, ngithemba ukuthi abantu bezobuchwepheshe bazizwa bekuhlomele kakhulu ukwakha ukuxhumana okunamandla, okunenjongo.  Ngiyethemba ;)

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